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Pick Your Own Brain, Metaphorically

We use metaphors all the time; in everyday conversation it’s astonishing how frequently metaphors pop up. And that’s not figurative, it’s fact. According to an expert on the subject, in normal speech we utter about six metaphors a minute (source). Seems a lot to me but I’m just the messenger…

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The perils of working with a batshit crazy manager

A few years ago I wrote a LI article about how employers can use technology to avoid hiring the batshit crazy (narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths). The article was read by more people than anything else I’ve written, before or since — probably just because of the title. So, on the basis it worked once, here’s a tale of two very different batshit crazy people I’ve reported to…

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The thing about habits

The idea for this post came to me a few weeks ago when, fresh out of the shower, the realisation that I dried myself in exactly the same order every day (bet you do, too...) popped randomly into my head and I thought, "Bugger me! When did that start!?" Just because I could, I decided to change but it soon became clear even something so trivial as changing the order I dry myself after a shower is more difficult than one might imagine (give it a go...).

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